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Isolation vs. loneliness boat in body of water

Isolation and Loneliness: Defense and Dilemma

Have you ever noticed the difference between isolation and loneliness?

Most of us learned that we have senses: touch, taste, smell, hearing and vision, but we have others.

Is there an experience you have when you felt as if somebody was watching you, you couldn’t see them but you knew they were; and you were right?

Isolation vs. loneliness boat in body of waterThat’s a sense.

And, having good sense is important!

How about a time when you felt like you were physically isolated from everyone? 

I remember a time I went fishing in the middle of a lake during a rain storm. I remember thinking that if anything happened to me no one would know.

Screaming at the top of my lungs would be futile  as no one would here me over the rain slapping into the water’s surface…

I felt isolated.

I felt isolated because I was.

That’s a sense and I want to be sensitive.

Loneliness however, is not a sense. It’s an emotion.

It comes from something you think.

Therefore, if you want to minimize or eliminate loneliness, simply eliminate the thoughts and beliefs that cause it.

In my Greater Powered Blueprint I teach you exactly how to eliminate thoughts and beliefs, including subconscious beliefs, that cause you suffer:
Greater Powered Blueprint

You can also read a previous post of mine:
http://wfcassidy.com/overcoming-loneliness-mind-hack

Specifically, the thoughts and beliefs that cause loneliness are the thoughts and beliefs that you are separate.

They are wrong. You are not separate!

You are connected to everything.

Every person, animal, plant and thing.

So, to the extent that you believe otherwise and how much you focus on your separateness, will be the extent of your loneliness.

You can continue suffering; living without the connection that we all desperately need to be happy, healthy and thrive or fix it.

Read the blueprint:
Greater Powered Blueprint

Or, if you don’t want to deal with going it alone and all the figuring out, hurdles and setbacks aggravation; and you want faster results, simply sign up for my coaching and I’ll get you started.

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas and Santa Miracle Story

I want to wish you a Merry Christmas and share a quick Santa, Christmas miracle story with you.

I experienced my first Christmas away from home when I was in the service as a kid.  My first Christmas away from home started as a huge disaster. I made plans to spend Christmas with a friend and his family and was really disappointed when he failed to show up for me. Merry Christmas

We made plans weeks before Christmas but never had the chance to firm up the commitment – no cell phones back then. I also got asked to go to my boss’s party, but was afraid to accept because of my prior agreement.

Anyhow, I was, as I said, really disappointed. It was Christmas, my first Christmas ever away from my family, I was living in a foreign country and I was alone with no place to go.

I was also sad and anxious.

The Santa Christmas Miracle

So, I called my boss and explained what had happened and asked I could still come to his party. He said “Absolutely, we’d love to have you. I’ll get you in about 15 minutes. So, I’ll see you then Santa”.

Santa? What?

My boss, Don Houton, was my best boss I ever had and one of the funniest human beings I ever met.

I’ll have to share some of his stories in the future, especially the parrot and the cigar joke…

Anyhow, he called me Santa because they needed someone to play Santa for the kids at the party that the kids wouldn’t recognize. Namely, me.

He scared me silly when he shared this news with me. Me playing Santa. I weighed about 135lbs wet. I needed to quickly increase my cookings and beer intake.

No worries though, he had pillows and everything worker out amazingly well.

The kids had a great time and so did I.

I’m not sure why, but women love to sit on Santa’s lap and give him kisses?

Now you know why I believe it’s a Santa Christmas miracle…

The Merry Christmas Lesson

The point of my Christmas story miracle is that sometimes when things seem “bad”, sometimes the situation will turn out better.

When I was younger I couldn’t see this so clearly. Then, after experiencing this phenomenon many times, I came to realize and understand that it is always there if you look for it and are open to it. 

And, not just for bad circumstances, any circumstance.

But, it’s a skill. Eventually you can get so good at it that you can consciously create anything you want, anytime you want.

I discuss how you can get to that point in my new report called Greater Powered: The Blueprint for Manifesting Your Unimaginable Dream Life.

So, if you’re tired of being disappointed, sad, anxious or generally not living the life you know deep down inside that you should be living, then click the previous link, download the report – it’s free; and have yourself a very Merry Christmas.